5 Secrets to Changing Your Reality
Have you ever met someone who was a drama queen and totally
controlled by unhappiness? Someone who reveled in their misery
and became a psychic black hole? Their lives are miserable and
complaining or blame is their only response. Negative energy
is something we are all familiar with, but it isnâ€™t something
we all have to live with. If you want to live a life full of
joy, prosperity and laughter you just have to remember you have
a choice. Life will always surprise you with challenges, but
how you handle them is entirely up to you. Is the glass half
full or half empty? Here are some not-so-secret secrets to creating
your own reality that are very simple.
Secret 1 Whip up a feeling of gratitude for all that you
already have. You are richer than 80 percent of the inhabitants
on the planet. In America we have been given an incredible opportunity
to live a lifestyle most of the global community never gets
to experience. Count your blessings, write them down and display
them on your refrigerator or your desk at work. As you begin
to focus on the beautiful gifts the world has given you your
life will change and so will the way you view yourself and others.
Once you have focused on being thankful you can bet the Universe
will respond by giving you more things to be grateful for!
Secret 2 Decide exactly what you want. Desire is the
driving force behind almost everything in our three dimensional
world. When our bodies want nourishment we desire to eat, when
the flowers open in the morning it is because they want sun,
when a dog barks it wants to be noticed. The reason most people
donâ€™t get what they want is because they keep changing their
minds! Deciding what we want isnâ€™t always the easiest task.
It often involves making a choice or a decision. The real truth
is we CAN have our heartâ€™s desire, if we are connected to it.
Secret 3 Visualize what your life will look and FEEL like
when your dreams come true! Too often we are told to stop
daydreaming and goofing off, to be serious! By the time we are
adults we donâ€™t realize we have been brainwashed into believing
that dreaming is lazy and imagining things is crazy. Not only
can we dream about what our lives will be like; we can imagine
how it feels to have all of the things we have ever wanted!
Gloria Steinem says, â€œWithout leaps of imagination, or dreaming,
we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all,
is a form of planning.â€ So, start making your plans right now
and watch what happens when dreams really do come true.
Secret 4 Dwell only upon the end result and let the Universe
take care of the details. Many people are confused and believe
that to create your own reality you must have control, but it
isnâ€™t necessary to control the world around you, just the way
you think, act and believe. Buddha said, â€œWe are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts,
we make the world.â€ Emotions, circumstances, other people: all
of these are subject to change without our permission. Our thoughts
and feelings are the key! If we dwell on where we are going
rather than how long it will take to get there the ride will
be much more fun! A plane ride can be long and tiring, but the
moment you put your first toe in the clear, blue waters of the
Caribbean you know it was worth the effort. Keep your eye on
the prize and let the rest of the world happen naturally.
Secret 5 Be grateful for what you are about to receive.
Live in gratitude for that which is on its way to you! Start
saying thank you, not just for the past, but also for the future.
Be thankful for the ripe old age you know you are going to live
to. Shout with joy about how grateful you are that someday you
will meet the love of your life. Say thank you to the Universe
for the satisfaction you will feel when the perfect job finds
These actions will change you and therefore your reality
because YOU are your reality. Being alive is a gift and to behave
in any other way is to lose sight of why we are hereâ€¦.to create
joy! So, open up the doors of possibility and let some fresh
air in. Itâ€™s time to clear out the old beliefs and start anew!
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